β20-11-2021 06:12 PM
β20-11-2021 06:12 PM
@Bow I am glad your Dietian is so understanding hon.
Will come and sit with you sweetie ππ
β20-11-2021 06:12 PM
β20-11-2021 06:12 PM
@Bow πππ
I wish I had something to offer. Sadly I am not in a good place.
β20-11-2021 06:19 PM
β20-11-2021 06:19 PM
@Bow sounds like an intense session, but a useful one. It's wonderful that you have that space to be safe to talk about those things and feel understood. I hope you have a minimal effort weekend ahead so you can just chill and process and stuff.
@Emelia8 Do you want to talk about it? Here if you need.
β20-11-2021 06:21 PM
β20-11-2021 06:21 PM
ohhh my sister @Emelia8 , here for you xx
Hello and hugs @Bow , @Snowie , @Anastasia , @Jynx
β20-11-2021 06:30 PM - edited β21-11-2021 10:19 AM
β20-11-2021 06:30 PM - edited β21-11-2021 10:19 AM
Thanks @Jynx
Just feel at the end of my tether.
Cancer diagnosis and surgery just on 12 months ago. Followed by radiation and checkups. Husband dying under traumatic circumstances in April. Me being in severe pain and sleep deprived since May. Now being told by a specialist today that I need spinal surgery. And my dear little dog Holly, the only thing I have left in this shitty life, has been diagnosed with a tumour in her sinuses. Nothing the vets can do. She is all I have left and she is now considered palliative. My Mum died 2 years ago. My dad is going downhill rapidly after several amputations due to bone infections. Now it appears more are needed. When will it stop? I dont think I can keep doing any of this.
β20-11-2021 06:45 PM
β20-11-2021 06:45 PM
@Emelia8 sorry to hear you are going through so much at the moment.
Sitting with you my dear friend πππ
β20-11-2021 06:53 PM
β20-11-2021 06:53 PM
@Emelia8 that is such an immense amount of heartbreak and sorrow to have to endure. I know there are no words that could possibly take away the grief you are feeling. I do hope it helps, even a little, to know that I have deepest empathy for you. I also hope that in sharing, you are able to feel... a little lighter, or at least held in this space. If there's one thing I know about this community, it is that there is an immense amount of love and care that we all feel for each other, especially in times of grief and loss.
If you would like to touch base via email at all let me know
β20-11-2021 06:57 PM
β20-11-2021 06:57 PM
@Emelia8 I am so sorry life continues to be so dam unfair on you. I don't have much more to give I am so sorry. But know that I am here as much as I can ππ€
β20-11-2021 07:29 PM
β20-11-2021 07:58 PM
β20-11-2021 07:58 PM
I'm so done with feeling this way
flashbacks are wearing me out
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