Not Coping

[Former-Member]

no worries @Birdofparadise8  🙂 

Yes, it would be very nice if he did respond, however I was thinking it may be a bit of food for thought for him, so he may take a little while before getting back to you 🙂 xx

And I think it is also very nice that he apologised, because it is acknowledgement for you, and also realisation in him 🙂 

Study is going ok here thank you xx and Im glad yours is going ok, however that does sound a bit disappointing that most of the answers are skewed to A...

Dont worry about grammar or spelling, I have my own areas of improvement in that myself! hehe xx 🙂 

[Birdofparadise8]

Yeah he might need to think on a resolution for the whole thing. 

That's good to hear. Is your course all online? @Former-Member 

What are you doing for dinner. I'm having honey soy chicken legs and fried rice. Yum. 

[Former-Member]

indeed @Birdofparadise8  🙂

Course is all online - very convenient and something I really appreciate because otherwise it wouldn't be possible 💜

I had an early dinner, because I forgot to have lunch, and I had leftover lamb shanks with veggies I made some days ago which was very nice 🙂

Ooh, that sounds incredibly tasty! I hope you enjoy it!

[creative_writer]

@Birdofparadise8 maybe he needs some time to think about things.

@Former-Member I thought I was better, but today has been harder. I do need to move on, I can’t keep going back, I can’t change it. Nor can I get what’s been taken

[Birdofparadise8]

That is good @Former-Member 

Nice lamb shanks are so good. 

Yeah I'm about to eat it now. 

Yeah maybe he does @creative_writer 

[Former-Member]

Hey there @creative_writer 🌺

Kindly, recovery from trauma I have found isn’t completely linear, and isn’t time dependent, either.. meaning, there are still harder days, no matter how much time passes. However, I think the difference comes with how we manage, and how we can build resilience within our recovery and the time that passes…would love to hear what you think 💜🙂🌺 
im so sorry the trauma you’ve experienced is still hurting

- it sounds like there is loss or grief present also, from what I’m reading in your message 💜🌺

holding space for you 🌺🙂

[Former-Member]

Yes indeed, love lamb shanks 😋🌺 @Birdofparadise8 🌺

How was dinner? I hope you feel full and happy 💜🙂🌺

[Birdofparadise8]

Nearly full hahaha @Former-Member 

Not feeling happy though. 

[ENKELI]

@Birdofparadise8 greetings  princess. I've been down with a major sinus headache and the 36 degrees heat hasn't helped.

I hope your day has gone well.

This has probably been answered but I personally wouldn’t ask if he still wants to be friends. It sounds like you're giving him an ultimatum and he may feel backed into a corner which may backfire.

If you want to remain friends keep it light and suggest a catch up for a time that suits him as well as you. 

Hope your day has gone well princess, I've just taken some more headache tablets. I'm fine lying down but as soon as I sit up bam! Heady poundy 🤯

[Former-Member]

Is it your friend @Birdofparadise8 ? 🌺💜

Here for you 🙂💜