Not Coping

[ENKELI]

@Jynx that's what the backs of chairs are for - hanging damp clothes!!

I have shirts, socks and jeans on hangers throughout the house during winter, plus a mini wooden rotary clothes airer that comes out in June every year. I bought it 20 years ago, best 20 bucks I ever spent!

[Glisten]

@Birdofparadise8 @ENKELI  Where’s Enkeli going? Hmmm

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[Birdofparadise8]

It's the Co-design Enkeli mentioned leaving if things were implemented, and I got upset @Glisten 

[Glisten]

Enkeli, lived in a townhouse, gas heater in lounge room. Every winter, clothes on hangers under the stairs. Lol
It worked great.

[Jynx]

@Birdofparadise8 nah not broken, I literally don't have a laundry or space in my house for a washing machine. I live in a granny flat lol. 

Haha @ENKELI wouldn't you know it all my chairs are ocupied by damp towels, and my clothes horse is full - the stuff getting rained on is the overflow from that 😅

[ENKELI]

@Glisten @Birdofparadise8 I'm not going anywhere, you can't get rid of me that easily lol!!

I was worrying that if the forum changes and the social aspect is changed or removed I don't know if I would benefit from the forum anymore. 

Some days, weekends usually, I may go an entire day without speaking to another person. And with work being difficult the past couple of days where no one spoke to me, this forum is all I have.

I gave up my life for my ex friend and her kids and lost so many friends because of her. I am really lonely so being able to chat with my Sane family, BoP especially, is important to me.

I'm not confident enough to join any clubs or groups and working late doesn't help.

I'm so grateful I found Sane, it has helped me so much.

I can't lose my princess either 😘👑💕

[Jynx]

Also @Birdofparadise8 re: emails and distress, I guess sometimes it can come down to the fact that written communication can be challenging when we don't have the context cues of body language and tone of voice. 

Does it  maybe create distress for you to be interpreted (and maybe spoken to in a certain way) as being distressed when you don't feel that way? 

[ENKELI]

@Jynx the shower recess works well too! That is if you have the basic shower rod and curtain set up! 

Clothes horse! That's the name I was looking for!

[Shaz51]

Yaaa I am soo glad 😊 @ENKELI , you mean so much to me 😍

[Birdofparadise8]

Aww @ENKELI, you are so special to me. Now I'm crying because of how much you mean to me or maybe a bit of both. 

Yeah, I'm the same as you. Maybe a little different from my roommates, but that's it. 

Your princess isn't going anywhere.