Not Coping

[ENKELI]

@ArraDreaming sorry my friend, there were other issues that we can't go in to. I know it's frustrating. 

Hope you're okay apart from not being able to sleep last night. Broken sleep is the pits.

[ArraDreaming]

Yeah, fair @ENKELI
except I been here since like 2017 or something and been through a few changes and it’s been ok
@Birdofparadise8 making friends is really good and great to be social on here but do you ever wonder about attachment stuff

[ArraDreaming]

I mean I would be sad if friends of mine left too but I think I would get over it

[ArraDreaming]

Are you allowed back on reach out yet surely that’s back on by now mate

[Birdofparadise8]

The changes are okay if everyone is on board. 

Attachment to certain members do you mean @ArraDreaming 

[ENKELI]

@Birdofparadise8 let me reassure you my princess that I have no desire to leave and while I was concerned about proposed changes I feel confident that we will still have a forum to chat on.

I think @Former-Member needs time to reset and we appreciate that.

I'm praying for them, just as I pray for you and everyone else I've been privileged to chat with.

Please don't get too stressed for now okay? 🫂💙

[ArraDreaming]

Yeah but I also think in a community like this not everyone will always be on board….. people can be consulted and things will be done to fit in all the preferences people have said but will always be people th y maybe don’t like it or it doesn’t suit them I think that’s just the way it is @Birdofparadise8 think they try to fit what everyone wants in but it’s not realistic to cater for everyone all of the time you know

[Birdofparadise8]

Thanks @ENKELI 

I had a bad dream about all this, which upset me. I don't like it when people leave. It hurts. 

I guess so @ArraDreaming, it's just hard. 

[ArraDreaming]

not be blunt, people will leave whether thats here or a different place in your world….
I won’t be here forever neither will be tyme or jynx or you or enkeli all people I get on with, they will leave one day, I won’t be here until I am 70

[Birdofparadise8]

That is true. I have a current friend, and I am trying to determine whether our friendship will continue because we both want different things. 

Never say never, though. If you're a CG, you can help people. @ArraDreaming