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19-06-2024 08:57 PM - edited 19-06-2024 09:41 PM
19-06-2024 08:57 PM - edited 19-06-2024 09:41 PM
Re: Fragile
Lovely to hear from you @Tilz
Oh it’s feels like I’m never going to get there because It’s taken me a long time to accept care from just my carers and then……..I’ve been very overwhelmed
It’s like you just need to plug on isn’t it ? I love owning my mental shortcomings and reviewing them in my mind and moving sideways, …..maybe not forward……taking them to weekly therapy….
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19-06-2024 09:02 PM
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Re: Fragile
Hi @Appleblossom . Yeah its not even winter started right. 😎
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19-06-2024 09:06 PM
19-06-2024 09:06 PM
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@PeppyPatti you seems like a great supporter. That's great peppypatti.
i have no idea about that. but love to learn that too. You will . Try on your free time. It will come automatically practice on your hand
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19-06-2024 09:38 PM
19-06-2024 09:38 PM
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Hi y’all,
@Tilz @Appleblossom @tyme @greenpea @tyme @Jacques @Glisten @Tilz @TAB @saturnzoon @Zoe7
Thankyou for your very lovely messages, you are all important to me. I’m just working out, how to live y best life while my Mother does her normal but regular ‘rip me apart,’ to friends family and her Gp.
Probably doesn’t help that I still called her this morning.
It might take a week because I need to be gentle with myself.
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19-06-2024 09:43 PM
19-06-2024 09:43 PM
Re: Fragile
Great to hear @PeppyPatti . Love to hear from you. ❤️
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19-06-2024 09:48 PM
19-06-2024 09:48 PM
Re: Fragile
.. @PeppyPatti my mother died like 7 years ago now; she used to be good for a chat mostly before then.
Father went 2 years ago. he turned on me and badly then was like all sugar in front of siblings til he couldnt hold it together anymore.
best thing I did was avoid him before death prob didnt see him last 4 years. He didnt leave me much choice , but I was not going to be a victim for him.
We are all different. yet the same. someone has pre empted what most people think of..
not sure why you need to see her, I have patchy info . will leave it at that. just saying 'disengage' is an option .... Good Luck.
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19-06-2024 10:06 PM - edited 21-06-2024 12:06 AM
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20-06-2024 11:28 PM
20-06-2024 11:28 PM
Re: Fragile
Yes @TAB Actually I had a great deal of empathy for you.
But not for me ??
How did you not contact ?
She's started up a new thread of lies about me. And she lives down the street. I thought I could see her once a week for dinner but I'm not going to anymore.
I cannot believe that I called her. What was wrong with me…..
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21-06-2024 08:29 PM
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Re: Fragile
Nothing wrong with love and empathy @PeppyPatti, but strong boundaries are needed with some people who don’t respond well to either. Take care of you Hon ❣️🌷
👋♥️ @Appleblossom @Zoe7 @Snowie @Shaz51 @TAB @Tilz @tyme @Emelia8 @Jacques and anyone else around
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21-06-2024 08:33 PM
21-06-2024 08:33 PM
Re: Fragile
Hey @Faith-and-Hope ,
Great to see you.
I wanted to check-in on you, but wasn't able to send an email.
Can you check your email inbox to see if it's full? If you can email us on team@saneforums.org it would be great.